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the cheap date guide to style

here comes another installment of …reviewed by me, for you, as yet another book has been added to my (severely clogged and nearly sagging) bookshelves!

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the cheap date guide to style

the cheap date guide to style by kira jolliffe and bay garnett: i first read about this book in a blog entry written some time ago by miss susie bubble of style bubble.
of course, susie being far more eloquent than i could ever be, describes the book to a tee:

After I read through the whole thing in about an hour, I concluded that for me, the book would be better named ‘Style Affirmation.’ The book, far from adopting a ‘Do this, don’t do that’ methodology is about encouraging a unique personal style, cultivating eccentricities and really putting your own stamp on things.

in other words, this ain’t your typical style guide…it’s a completely different animal, one that celebrates realness, quirkiness, risk-taking, and being offbeat, if that’s your way. or really, whatever your way is, if it’s really *you*. it’s probably not for those people who need a lot of help trying to figure out who they are, but rather, a little mutual-admiration for those who already embrace the beat of their own style drummer and create their own look or looks.

the book has an imperfect, scrapbook-like, teen-magazine-in-the-80s-sort aesthetic, and is filled with loads of photographs that have a flash-lit, harsh, “i took them with my little old point-and-shoot film camera” style, i.e. the whole affair is not a high-fashion glamorously glossy and perfec production, and is thus approachable. it’s more grassroots, like an anti-fashion fashion magazine in the form of a book. inexplicably, in it’s realness, it takes on a magical chicness and honest glamour.

(fyi: bay (a british-born stylist) and kira are hard-core thrifters from way, way back, and together they penned a style zine called “cheap date“, which apparently focused heavily on secondhand shopping and gained a sizeable cult following. the book is a result of that zine’s success, from what i can garner.)

the cheap date guide to style

the cheap date guide to style

the cheap date guide to style

the cheap date guide to style

one of things about the book that really makes it for me are, as susie also mentions, are the quotes peppered throughout, from the authors, and from other style mavens. here some words from the book i quite like. in fact, they are sentiments i am forever beating to death in this blog and over at wardrobe_remix, ad nauseam:

“Stylishness is elusive, yet everyone is innately stylish. It boils down to confidence about your appearance. One things for sure: there’s no specific type of dressing that’s more stylish than another….style – to state the bleedin’ obvious – is in you. It’s not something you can buy.”

“For anything to be stylish, there has to be an honesty behind it.”

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i love this quote by the recently deceased eccentric british stylist isabella blow:

“I think thinking is stylish. Looking is stylish. Culture is stylish. I think you need to be inspired by something in order to look good…I think style is about a person recognizing what their best features are.”

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when asked what inspires him, karl lagerfeld said:

“Everything. Inspiration comes from having open eyes.”

and when anna piaggi was asked the same thing, she said:

“I take inspiration from myself.”

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“Being stylish is a way to project whatever we like, to be who we want to be in our fantasies and to manipulate reality.”

“There are no rules…By listening to your own opinion, the possibilities are endless.”

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“style affirmation”, indeed.
thanks, susie.

Comments

6 total remarks on this post.

  1. i’m going to buy this and read it, and then i’m going to (probably) put it in my classroom library. it sounds like something my students would be interested in.


  2. this sounds like a very cute book. i love the quotes you posted!
    aaahhh i miss the cheap date mag… is it still around? i remember being amused when they would put thrifted items in the window displays of high end stores like prada… and see how long it would take the staff to notice.
    ; )


  3. I WANT IT I WANT IT I WANT IT!! thanks for the review of this book. I remember looking for the zine back in the days but where i used to live it wasnt distributed :( now its my chance!


  4. Wow….I must get this book! I have to pester my library friend to see if she can get it for the library!


  5. Fantastic review – this book looks awesome. (“Survive on 20 pairs of jeans” – hilarious!) Just flicked over to read this after seeing your comment on galadarling :-)


  6. [...] Since reading this entry by Susie of Style Bubble (& this one by Tricia of Bits & Bobbins) back in March, I’ve been after The Cheap Date Guide to Style. It has in fact been in the Amazon shopping basket since April, but I got it finally earlier this week. [...]