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		<title>By: Link Love:&#160;7.17.08 &#124; Nubbytwiglet.com</title>
		<link>http://bitsandbobbins.com/2008/07/09/photographing-yourselfyour-style-narcissism/comment-page-1/#comment-44321</link>
		<dc:creator>Link Love:&#160;7.17.08 &#124; Nubbytwiglet.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2008 18:39:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Does photographing yourself and your style equal narcissism? Tricia of bits+bobbins always makes [...]</description>
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		<title>By: The Coveted Wore Something Today &#124; THE COVETED</title>
		<link>http://bitsandbobbins.com/2008/07/09/photographing-yourselfyour-style-narcissism/comment-page-1/#comment-41997</link>
		<dc:creator>The Coveted Wore Something Today &#124; THE COVETED</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 07:53:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] permission a few months ago via wardrobe_remix, but when initial discussions about the old title.. WIWT: Fashion Narcissism Online there was a lump in my throat. But then they changed the title&#8230; but it still leaves me [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] permission a few months ago via wardrobe_remix, but when initial discussions about the old title.. WIWT: Fashion Narcissism Online there was a lump in my throat. But then they changed the title&#8230; but it still leaves me [...]</p>
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		<title>By: (not so) random links &#124; bits and bobbins</title>
		<link>http://bitsandbobbins.com/2008/07/09/photographing-yourselfyour-style-narcissism/comment-page-1/#comment-38023</link>
		<dc:creator>(not so) random links &#124; bits and bobbins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 03:44:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] and related!  to what, you say?  why, the discussion i started from the other week about whether photographing yourself/your style = narcissism?  heh. hee.   [...]</description>
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		<title>By: hey, look! they changed the cover. &#124; bits and bobbins</title>
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		<dc:creator>hey, look! they changed the cover. &#124; bits and bobbins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2008 23:57:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] (what i wore today: online fashion narcissism from beijing to berlin) we were talking about in the photographing yourself/your style = narcissism? discussion from a few weeks [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Birdie!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Birdie!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 17:17:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I did a study on narcissism versus healthy high-self-esteem - used it as a research topic for an English class, actually.  To relate the topic to your question, if people are basing their self esteem on the response from the outside world, it&#039;s outward-focused self esteem, and therefore could be considered narcissistic.  If people are just documenting, but they derive a good feeling from the way they&#039;re documented, because their style makes them proud of themselves (simply internal = self-based self-esteem), it&#039;s not necessarily narcissistic. 

I guess it boils down to whether or not you&#039;re documenting outfits because you need affirmation from the outside world, on whether or not your style is hip.  If you take photos to document and show, regardless of what the outside world thinks (a big thumb to nose to those who think your style is completely off!) you&#039;re not looking for outside affirmation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I did a study on narcissism versus healthy high-self-esteem &#8211; used it as a research topic for an English class, actually.  To relate the topic to your question, if people are basing their self esteem on the response from the outside world, it&#8217;s outward-focused self esteem, and therefore could be considered narcissistic.  If people are just documenting, but they derive a good feeling from the way they&#8217;re documented, because their style makes them proud of themselves (simply internal = self-based self-esteem), it&#8217;s not necessarily narcissistic. </p>
<p>I guess it boils down to whether or not you&#8217;re documenting outfits because you need affirmation from the outside world, on whether or not your style is hip.  If you take photos to document and show, regardless of what the outside world thinks (a big thumb to nose to those who think your style is completely off!) you&#8217;re not looking for outside affirmation.</p>
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		<title>By: Link Love: 7.17.08 &#124; Nubbytwiglet.com</title>
		<link>http://bitsandbobbins.com/2008/07/09/photographing-yourselfyour-style-narcissism/comment-page-1/#comment-37860</link>
		<dc:creator>Link Love: 7.17.08 &#124; Nubbytwiglet.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 13:40:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: EmilyKate</title>
		<link>http://bitsandbobbins.com/2008/07/09/photographing-yourselfyour-style-narcissism/comment-page-1/#comment-37828</link>
		<dc:creator>EmilyKate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 03:30:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the intelligence and depth with which your commenters have engaged with this question is proof that there&#039;s more going on with style blogging than just &#039;narcissism&#039;! 

Throughout history, women have often been defined by their clothing; the style of clothing they have been allowed to wear has been very often prescribed to them according to class... these strictures are falling away and we are freer to SIMPLY HAVE FUN!!!   

I have never put photos of myself up on a style blog, though I have shared photos on sewing sites of myself wearing clothing I have sewn... I LOVE seeing REAL PEOPLE and their funny, quirky, inspired and most of all INDIVIDUAL takes on the fashions that blow across  society or that they invent themselves.   Mainstream media is rather disheartening in its continued used of all the same &#039;ideas&#039;, and all using the same models, who are a uniform size...  It is awful really how our unconscious can readily absorb the idea that only model &#039;types&#039; are fashionable or attractive, or that a particular style is in this month and out the next.  Style blogs give a window into the lives of real people who are walking around among us in amazing, colourful, beautiful, joyous outfits and creating visual treats for everyone they encounter, and infusing art into something we all have to do every day- put on clothes!   It does my heart good to see it,   I thank you all for sharing, and isn&#039;t sharing pretty much narcissism&#039;s opposite?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the intelligence and depth with which your commenters have engaged with this question is proof that there&#8217;s more going on with style blogging than just &#8216;narcissism&#8217;! </p>
<p>Throughout history, women have often been defined by their clothing; the style of clothing they have been allowed to wear has been very often prescribed to them according to class&#8230; these strictures are falling away and we are freer to SIMPLY HAVE FUN!!!   </p>
<p>I have never put photos of myself up on a style blog, though I have shared photos on sewing sites of myself wearing clothing I have sewn&#8230; I LOVE seeing REAL PEOPLE and their funny, quirky, inspired and most of all INDIVIDUAL takes on the fashions that blow across  society or that they invent themselves.   Mainstream media is rather disheartening in its continued used of all the same &#8216;ideas&#8217;, and all using the same models, who are a uniform size&#8230;  It is awful really how our unconscious can readily absorb the idea that only model &#8216;types&#8217; are fashionable or attractive, or that a particular style is in this month and out the next.  Style blogs give a window into the lives of real people who are walking around among us in amazing, colourful, beautiful, joyous outfits and creating visual treats for everyone they encounter, and infusing art into something we all have to do every day- put on clothes!   It does my heart good to see it,   I thank you all for sharing, and isn&#8217;t sharing pretty much narcissism&#8217;s opposite?</p>
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		<title>By: Sonia Luna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sonia Luna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2008 15:45:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this discussion! I left a comment on Style Bubble already but wanted to leave a mark here as well [egocentric, moi ... no!?!].
I have to admit that I sometimes feel self-indulgent when taking pictures of myself to post on my blog, as I said on Style Bubble I usually have so much fun that the thought dissapears quite fast! At the same time I&#039;ve never thought that any of the bloggers I admire are in any way narcissistic or self-centered in posting their daily outfit pictures, I enjoy seeing people of all shapes, sizes and taste sharing their style.
I hope that the publishers of this book will change the name ... such a bad choice!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this discussion! I left a comment on Style Bubble already but wanted to leave a mark here as well [egocentric, moi ... no!?!].<br />
I have to admit that I sometimes feel self-indulgent when taking pictures of myself to post on my blog, as I said on Style Bubble I usually have so much fun that the thought dissapears quite fast! At the same time I&#8217;ve never thought that any of the bloggers I admire are in any way narcissistic or self-centered in posting their daily outfit pictures, I enjoy seeing people of all shapes, sizes and taste sharing their style.<br />
I hope that the publishers of this book will change the name &#8230; such a bad choice!</p>
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		<title>By: Daphne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daphne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2008 22:56:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oops, I&#039;m joining this convo late, but the publishers of the book asked for permission to use two of my W_R photos for a book about &quot;how real women dress&quot;.  Though I wondered why they chose the photos they did (not feeling they were good representations of my usual style), I liked the idea and gave consent.  I&#039;ve heard that those who worked on this book don&#039;t like the &quot;narcissism&quot; tagline and intend to change it before it hits the presses, but I suppose I don&#039;t care either way.  I wouldn&#039;t call my participation in W_R narcissism, though I can see others thinking that.  I find the W_R community very supportive, sharing and inspiring and that&#039;s why I do it.  I have gotten a big confidence boost since joining, though I hardly think that that counts as narcissism....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oops, I&#8217;m joining this convo late, but the publishers of the book asked for permission to use two of my W_R photos for a book about &#8220;how real women dress&#8221;.  Though I wondered why they chose the photos they did (not feeling they were good representations of my usual style), I liked the idea and gave consent.  I&#8217;ve heard that those who worked on this book don&#8217;t like the &#8220;narcissism&#8221; tagline and intend to change it before it hits the presses, but I suppose I don&#8217;t care either way.  I wouldn&#8217;t call my participation in W_R narcissism, though I can see others thinking that.  I find the W_R community very supportive, sharing and inspiring and that&#8217;s why I do it.  I have gotten a big confidence boost since joining, though I hardly think that that counts as narcissism&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: grechen</title>
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		<dc:creator>grechen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2008 22:50:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i don&#039;t think i&#039;m particularly narcissistic, but then again, neither am i ashamed or bashful when it comes to my look or style...i began my website for a variety of reasons, one of the most important being to encourage other women of &quot;average&quot; (size 12) size to experiment with style, and not be afraid to see themselves in photos.  honestly, i think that&#039;s why we don&#039;t see more average sized women in fashion magazines - we are too afraid to see what we really look like and acknowledge our size.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i don&#8217;t think i&#8217;m particularly narcissistic, but then again, neither am i ashamed or bashful when it comes to my look or style&#8230;i began my website for a variety of reasons, one of the most important being to encourage other women of &#8220;average&#8221; (size 12) size to experiment with style, and not be afraid to see themselves in photos.  honestly, i think that&#8217;s why we don&#8217;t see more average sized women in fashion magazines &#8211; we are too afraid to see what we really look like and acknowledge our size.</p>
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